In today’s world where people are happy staying single, marriage minded singles have become a rare species. It is not only tough to find serious people but the topic in itself has become a taboo. It is as if no one wants to come out in the open and declare that he/she is looking forward to get married.
Therefore, you need to be innovative if you are looking for a perfect and serious match. Here are three ways to find marriage minded singles.
#1 Online dating sites
Many people think that online dating is a thing of passé but the truth is that thousands of couples are finding their soul mate through these online methods. In fact, researches have shown that your chances of finding marriage minded singles is at least two times more than the chances of finding serious singles in a party or at a bar.
There are websites that specializes in just finding out marriage minded singles for you. Moreover, with thousand of peoples in such websites who have expressed their openness to settle down, it is a sure shot way of finding out your marriage partner. This way you not only find the perfect match for yourself based on your compatibility but you also avoid the strenuous effort required in other methods where you have to invest a lot of time in dating before finding out if the other person is really serious about settling down.
#2 Family and friends
Who knows you better than your family and friends? Just ask your friends to fix you up with someone serious. You never know, your friend might have another friend who is also looking for a serious partner. Family and friends can be another tried and tested way to find marriage minded singles.
This is a good and a safe way because you can trust your friend’s choice for you, as they know you and most probably your prospective partner well.
If you have any girl friends that are close to you and understand you, then even better. Girls love to play matchmaker and would be sensitive to your needs. It is needless to say, you would need to open your heart to them and share every thing. However, there is a slight downside to this method. If your date is not successful or if you are rejected then you become the centre point of discussion at gathering and parties and sometimes things could turn ugly between you and your friend who set you up. Secondly, you might want to keep your intentions of settling down in the near future as a secret until you find your soul mate.
#3 Meet up groups
Another good way to find marriage minded singles is through various meet up groups. Some of them are even dedicated to help you in finding the perfect match for you. One advantage of this method is that you straight away meet up and do not waste time in chatting or exchanging emails. Ironically, this advantage can also be disadvantageous to you, as you are meeting up a stranger without knowing much about them and their background. Even though, most of these meet-up groups do a thorough background check but some people would like to exchange a few emails and chat online before meeting face-to-face.
Alternatively, you can also go to generic meet-up groups of your interests rather than going to the groups just dedicated to find marriage minded singles for you. This way you do not only dedicate your time to something you like but you also find people who share the same interest as you. Who knows, one of those people may be a perfect match for you.